Yamaguchi said that due to his busy schedule, he had left much of the responsibilities to care for their two sons and take care of the household to his ex-wife. Even when he was off work, he would head out for drinks with friends or go surfing rather than stay at home to help out. Especially after the whole family had moved to Kamakura in 2004, he could not spend a lot of time at home and would only return there twice or thrice per week in recent years. Although they moved back to Tokyo later on, things still did not improve as Yamaguchi would go out for meals and drinks with staff members, thinking that he could get back home earlier than when his house was at Kamakura. As such, this took a toll on his ex-wife which he had grossly underestimated. At times when she needed his support, he was always absent. All this while, there had been quarrels over this issue but she only brought up the topic of divorce for the first time three years ago. In order to give each other some space and time to consider the future, they started living apart since April this year. However, they still decided to go their separate ways in the end although they were apologetic towards their sons about it.
When asked about the terms for the divorce, Yamaguchi revealed that based on his current schedule, it is difficult for him to be taking care of the children. Besides, his ex-wife had been the one who was taking care of them full time so the custody of the kids will be held by her. However, he will bear all costs relating to the boys especially since she had been a housewife all this while and had little savings. From now on, there are many decisions to be made such as deciding on where the children will live with their mother so he will continue to support them in whatever ways he can. As for alimony, his ex-wife did not want any since they parted on amicable terms and it was for the long-term good of the children anyway. In addition, she even called him three times today before the press conference to express support and ask if he was OK doing it alone which he was very thankful for.
With response to a question asking if the eye injury he suffered last month was due to the marital problem, Yamaguchi who had appeared in a bandage then on TV, denied it and said that he had put on sunglasses while riding a bicycle and fell so hard onto the ground that he sustained the injury, If he had been inflicted with such a bad injury by his ex-wife, he would have initiated divorce then. Although there were rumours swirling then that he was beaten up, Yamaguchi said that he wouldn't have dared to continue appearing on TV if that was true. Anyway, if he had stayed away, that would have caused more speculation so he had discussed it with his agency and went ahead to appear on TV while wearing the bandage on his eye.
As for how his sons reacted to the news of their parents' divorce, Yamaguchi revealed that his ex-wife had broken the news to them first. His elder son who is 8 years old, commented then that he didn't like it when his mother was sad so if the split makes them happy, he could understand why they were doing it. Before the divorce, he had tried to spend as much time with the boys during the summer vacation in July as they are attending a school camp this month.
As for his fellow TOKIO members, Yamaguchi revealed that he did bring up the likelihood of him getting divorced about three years ago when they were chit-chatting. He told them on 3 August that the divorce was going to be finalised. As they had met his family before, they were encouraging upon hearing the news and said that if it works out in the interests for his ex-wife and kids, it's not such a bad thing after all. He also said that his members were quite amazed that he got married then and that he had gone through some good changes as well during this period which he attributed to his ex-wife and his fellow members. He was also thankful for their support and belief that he will get on fine after this episode. Yamaguchi also apologised to fans for causing them to be worried over this sudden announcement but promised to work hard as usual and asked for their continued support.
As Yamaguchi was the first active Johnny's Jimusho artiste to get divorced and to hold a press conference about it, he was asked by the reporters why he decided to go ahead. Yamaguchi commented as he had gone public personally during TOKIO's concert when he got married, he wanted to be able to use his own words to talk about the divorce rather than rely on a fax statement only. Although he felt odd for being the No.1 in this regard, he thanked the media for spending their time to come to the press conference. He also called upon everyone to give his ex-wife and children personal space since she is not a celebrity and his children are already at the age when they understand what is going on so he hopes that their lives will not be affected going forward.
Sources: Oricon 1 / Tokyo Sports Web / Oricon 2 / Sanspo
He sounds so nice from your report :) I wish all the best to all of them. Thanks for sharing :)
ReplyDeleteAt the very least, he was forthcoming about his shortcomings and did not set any restrictions to the media when they asked questions. Like what he said, he knew that he was already not so good before he got married i.e. not exactly good husband material. That's why he said that his fellow members were amazed to see him get married and have kids. To be perfectly honest, most people would want to prioritise their needs over other people's since this is human nature. That's why not everyone is suited for marriage. He probably got a bit too complacent, thinking that his wife could tolerate his behaviour since he knew that the household and kids were in good hands. To be able to devote everything to the marriage and family is not easy especially with a husband who is always not around so I think the wife really deserves a lot of credit for tolerating until now. What's more, with a Johnny's artiste as your husband, there are a lot of restrictions and things you have to be careful for. That must have added to the pressure she felt. Overall, it sounds like this is a positive move for the future so I think it's good that they finally decided to do the best for themselves and their sons.
ReplyDeleteWhat's amusing is that the reporters were heaping praise on him in their reports for sending them off at the exit when the press conference ended. And to have a 40 min-long press conference for this kind of matter is truly unusual. You would imagine most people wanting to avoid mentioning the topic altogether or avoid going into details. That made him stand out from a lot of celebrities who hold press conferences but still have NG questions or give simply ridiculous answers.
Usually for Johnny's artistes, they tend to be quite tight-lipped about their romance and private lives which may be due to their management style and their fanbase. However, there are some who are quite open and this actually makes them more endearing to the fans. For example, Kokubun Taichi announced his marriage directly to fans in a letter while Matsuoka Masahiro recently joked about an article about him and his longtime girlfriend at a standing bar and said that they should find a place to sit down next time. Of course, if you are talking about teen idols or those with lots of young people as fans, they probably can't be as open as these guys who are already in their 30s and 40s.
Thanks for sharing this!
ReplyDeleteHi prestoli, no problem about this!
ReplyDeletethank you for sharing this news.
ReplyDeleteWe don't know what really happened, but to me, I still can't believe that the scar he made on his face was due to bicycle accident. I think that excuse is too lame? XD but who knows.
anyway, as you said, not everyone deserves a marriage. if a man is too independent and always thinks for himself, I bet he would end up a divorce if he tries to marry someone.
I don't say that Gussan is not suitable as a husband, but seeing his statement that even in his day off he would go out surfing himself/with staff etc, I can see why his ex-wife was suffering.
still, I appreciate Gussan for his bravery, holding a press conference and 40 minutes long! not many artists can do that.
I hope all the best for Gussan and TOKIO!
Thanks for the article. You mentioned everything in so detail. I am happy for him.
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